Too young. RIP Jane Packer.

Several years ago I worked in Marylebone, London and used to pass the beautiful window of Jane Packer’s flower shop. As a former country bumpkin whose idea of a florist’s shop was a fusty window with some knackered looking dried flowers and a couple of half inflated balloons, looking at Jane Packer’s shop was like being hit between the eyes with a shaft of dazzling brilliance. Her flowers were like nothing I had ever seen before. Crisp, beautiful and of the highest quality.

I used to make a detour to simply look at whatever was on display this week and dream about ever having one percent of that artistic ability.

And then one day I found out she had a flower school. I signed up for a 3 day course. I booked myself 3 days holiday and commuted back into London on my days off just to spend time in her shop and learn something about arranging flowers. I loved it. The course was taught by one of Jane’s assistants but we did meet her very briefly. Every evening, I staggered out of the shop laden down with something beautiful and navigated the underground and the train home whilst desperately trying to keep my creation in one piece. The next morning I would come back into London excited to see what we would make that day.

Doing that very short course made me make one of the few resolutions I have ever managed to keep – that every year I would learn something new. If I hadn’t enjoyed that first course at the flower shop so much, I doubt I would ever have kept that resolution. But I did, and I have.

Jane Packer passed away on 9th November 2011, aged just 52. She didn’t know me, and would never have remembered our 20 second meeting, but she and her flower shop had a massive impact on my life.

Thank you Jane.

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Five things I wish I’d known when I was 18

1. Yes, this really is the best you will ever look.
2. Get the travelling out of the way when you are in your twenties. In your thirties, jet lag really bites and by the time you are in your forties you won’t want to sleep on anything except your NASA approved mattress.
3. The well known guest star in the detective drama is always the murderer. It’s the only reason they agreed to do it.
4. Christmas cards that come in packs have pathetically thin envelopes.
5. It’s actually OK to start a book and never finish it. Ditto a movie. Especially ones where nobody believes the main protagonist. They will make you feel uncomfortable for the entire duration, then you will be forced to sit through the bloody thing just to make sure he is believed at the end.

What about you? What do you wish your younger self had known?

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